people often confuse infactuation with love. people think because they cant stop thinking about the person and cant so jealous and shit that they think its love. and people think that love is all that corney shit like, "i cant stop tihnking about you" or "your all i need". NO. love isnt any of that shit. of course you need that person like crazy but there will be other people that you need, like family or other very close friends. theres also other types of love. the one that im mainly talking about is the one you have for ONE person. i dont believe that u can love more then one person, at a time at least, thats just wrong. but theres love that you have for family, theres love that u have for your closest friends and theres love for matieral things or things that you do. im talking about the love you have for 1 person because thats the one that people get confused with because people are made to believe that love is something that it isnt. or sometimes they just get confused and start to think that thats what it is. but to be real with u this is just what i feel it is, without the filters of social standards and media in the way. it took me alot of thinking to come up with that conclusion. and taken me a longer time to adjust to what it really is. even though i havent personally felt something that ideal i know what it is and i pray that i can find it. and even though not many people may think that love is what i tihnk it is, in the end its what YOU tihnk it is and what YOU feel it must be.